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Amorous_Propensities News snippits on human uality including homophobia, transgendered, and ual health. Includes the merely funny and very serious.

AmorousTimes Daily news and useful links about ual health issues, dating issues, and romance topics.

Aphrodite_Women\'s_Health__Female_uality_News_Index The latest in female ual health news.

Daze_Reader Daily blog covering , technology, culture, news, art, gossip, people, politics, drugs & rock & roll ... but mostly . Comprehensive collection of -related articles, galleries, intervi

The_Electronic_Journal_of_Human_uality A peer-reviewed publication of the Institute for Advanced Study of Human uality, including dissertations, reviews, and general interest articles on the topic of human uality.

Essays_Explore_New_Perspectives_about_Nature_of_Love_and__Desire A review and analysis of "Erotikon - Essays on Eros, Ancient and Modern" in the University of Chicago Chronicle of a new publication of essays by leading intellectuals and artists on eros.

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uality_Information_and_Education_Council_of_the_U_S_ Website for the non-profit organization, promoting comprehensive education about uality, and advocating the rights of individuals to make responsible ual choice.

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A few weeks of columns can be found in the archives.Love and DeathHand it to himSunrise, SunsetNo SatisfactionNo chokeCougar DenA friend in need Faking It

Faking It

Dear Andrea:I recently discovered that my husband of fifteen years has secretly been participating in S&M activities. He has paid for services of a dominatrix and also has been meeting some dominant females on the internet for whipping sessions. I am coping with the feelings of betrayal and have been getting help with counseling. I have been reading up on the subject. The author Gloria Brame who is into BDSM herself gives insight into the various range of S&M activities. I have been open to being a Mistress to my husband. Do you think there is hope for the relationship if one party is not really into it? I realize this BDSM stuff develops in the psyche a long time ago.Love,WhiplashedDear Whip:Oh, it can be acquired, The real question here, is, can it be faked?On the face of it the answer is a resounding yes, since although "real lifestyle" dominants boast their credentials and certainly garner a lot more respect within the community, any kitten with a whip can hang out a shingle and get customers. Not all customers care what their service provider is really feeling or what she does on her night off as long as the job gets done. Of course, you are not a gun for hire, you are the wife. I'm going to guess that will feel a little different to him. Nobody wants a pity fuck (OK, that's not true, but in general nobody over about age 18 wants a pity fuck) and I'd imagine a pity caning is, if anything, worse. Topping is a lot of work! There's the research, the attitude, the physical exertion, the coming up with good routines, the skills-building, the outfits. Have you talked to him about all this? Is it even what he wants? If so, is it even what you want? Wanting to save your marriage is admirable, but I'd be careful about going to heroic measures without first determining that it can be saved and that enthusiastic applications of corporal punishment are likely to work.You need to determine if you can forgive him, whether he wants to be forgiven, and whether or not he even responds to you in the dominant role (often it's easier to grovel at the feet of a stranger than at those of the person with whom one shares a bathroom, a dentist, and a checking account). More important to me than whether he thinks you're hot with a flogger in hand, though, is whether you even want to do this. Yes, a taste for S/M can be acquired, and failing that, can be faked, but I'm just not ure the latter is going to be good for either of you in the long run. You are being an excellent sport about this, and I'm glad you're getting counseling. I'm a little concerned, though. We must not gloss over the fact that he not only suddenly (to you) unveiled a a whole huge new and likely dismaying (at first) side to his character, about which you had no inkling, he has also cheated on you. I am capable of compartmentalizing visits to a pro but "some dominant females on the internet?" Has he owned up to the cheating, and apologized? Have you forgiven him? Will he be doing it again? These seem rather more important questions, or at least questions which must be asked and answered before you consider moving on to whether you will be his Mistress, his Domme, or his Goddess, and whether you will do pain, humiliation, sensory play, or domination. I ask again, do you even want to do this? And since you're being so game and open-minded about all of it, have you considered off-shoring the tedious parts at all? Yours would not be the first marriage which made space for the husband (so very rarely the wife!) consulting with a specialist within certain pre-set parameters. It's an idea, that's all I'm saying. If you think it's a really horrible idea, that's OK with me too. If you really want to do it yourself, and he really wants you to, and you are able to find some enjoyment in it for yourself, and he makes and keeps agreements about any extramural activities which you can live with and agree to, then I think yeah, there's a chance here. That's a lot of ifs, though, and I am uncomfortable with the idea of his being paid back for betraying you with you going way way way out of your way to make sure his every urge is gratified. You're the top now–do you feel like gratifying him? It would be nice if you could make physically punishing him feel like payback to you but I'm afraid that is the stuff of S/M fantasy. In real life, the worst case scenario might go ore like, you punish him, he likes it, and you're stuck serving him by beating him. People talk a lot about topping from the bottom; don't get stuck bottoming from the top.Love,Andrea Copyright 1997-2008 Andrea Nemerson. All Rights Reserved

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